SOFT LIFE, HARD RULES
A Guide to Choosing a Provider, Not a Project
Book Description:
She cooked. She cleaned. She loved him past his wounds. She stayed through the struggle.
And still, it wasn’t enough.
He didn’t change.
He drained her.
And when she finally walked away, she blamed herself for bleeding for a man who never planned to bandage her.
Soft Life, Hard Rules is for the woman who’s tired of loving at a discount.
It’s for the woman who knows she was never meant to be the backbone of a man who won’t even cover her heart — or her rent.
This book is your awakening.
It is the guide your mother didn’t have — the wisdom your healing depends on.
Inside these pages, you’ll learn:
• How to stop building men who were never sent to build with you
• Why your softness should never be sacrificed for survival
• How to recognize the difference between a provider and a parasite
• How to rebuild your standards so high, only God can send someone to reach them
You will cry.
You will heal.
You will remember who you were before the begging, before the betrayal, before the bare minimum became normal.
This isn’t a relationship book — it’s a return to power.
Because you are not hard to love.
You’re just no longer available to men who confuse access with worthiness.
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You were never created to struggle for love.
You were created to be soft — but your standards must be hard.
